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<tagline type="text/html" mode="escaped"><![CDATA[我叫但佳萍, 我爱写作，喜欢以文会友。我也爱唱歌，更喜欢以歌会友。我长在人杰地灵的四川——自贡。
呵呵……有人会问我自贡在哪！？
自贡在四川的南部，一个很美很美的城市。在那里你能感受到现代与后现代的碰撞。自贡也是一个有着悠久盐文化、灯文化和恐龙化右的历史名城。
还有喔，在自贡你还可以看到那种在电影科幻里才能看到的恐龙。（当然是真的恐龙化石喔！）
如果想来的话，我一定会很好客的！！！！！！
欢迎五湖四海的朋友来自贡玩！！！！！！！！
记住我的名字：但佳萍
“但氏语堂”电话：86+13890092102
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<entry> 
<title><![CDATA[企业管理杂谈之企业的生命在哪里？ ]]></title> 
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<issued>2007-07-06T15:07:20Z</issued> 
<created>2007-07-06T15:07:20Z</created> 
<modified>2007-07-06T15:07:20Z</modified>
<id>tag:ancaly.blogchina.com,2007://6359469</id>
<author> 
<name>ancaly</name> 
<url>http://ancaly.blogchina.com/index.html</url> 
<email>danjiaping@hotmail.com</email> 
</author> 
<dc:subject>最佳管理&amp;Top</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<wbr /><br /><font style="PADDING-RIGHT: 1px; PADDING-LEFT: 1px; FILTER: glow(color=#CC0000,strength=3); PADDING-BOTTOM: 1px; COLOR: #ffffff; PADDING-TOP: 1px; HEIGHT: 10px">企业的核心竞争力从技术、资金再到人力资源。概念也许出了许久，但真正的有几家企业做到了人本管理的。 </font><wbr /><br /><font style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em" size="2">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 我们经常看到一些优势的企业在经历过创业，辉煌后，并不得不遇到企业的瓶颈。但是往往在这个时候，企业为了急功，为了得到眼前的利益，而忽略了人本管理。 </font><wbr /><br /><font style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em" size="2">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 企业大致分为制造业、服务业。制造管生产，服务业主要从事各方面的服务，包括传媒也属于服务业。生产企业的上帝是消费者，而真正的上帝却是企业的员工。因为员工是企业的第一消费者，他们更清楚企业的品质。所以，要想企业做大做强，只能先让内部认同，让员工满意，如果员工的诉求不能得到满意，企业的所有施政都是无事于补的。因为在企业最困难的时候，往往企业的固定员工或者说是老将会为企业做到坚持效忠。有些企业在发展中，为了换血不断的盲目注入所谓的新鲜血液，但往往事与愿违。 </font><wbr /><br /><font style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em" size="2">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 参与过企业创建过的人更知道创业难，更会做份内的事进行守业，兴业。而没有参与过的人不知道其中的甘苦，这里并不是否认新人员的能力，而是指在效企方面或理解企业方面将不会如老将深知。 </font><wbr /><br /><font style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em" size="2">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 拿传媒业来说，日益竞争的业态，人才竞争，广告资源的竞争，发行量或市场份额的竞争。而人才竞争的同时，人才的流的也较快。全世界最不固定的就是那些扛着相机，手拿采访本的记者。他们面对的是每天的不同的压力，和自己给予自己的压力。于是，剽窃、诬陷、踩人成了生存的必要手段。因为谁也不知道这个饭碗什么时候会失去。由于此行业的流动性较大，所以社会保障的待遇也相对薄弱些。虽然新闻界也一直在嚷要重视记者的权益，但又有多少传媒企业做到了。 </font><wbr /><br /><font style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em" size="2">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 好的传媒业是养人、育人、成人的地方。既要留住人，还要帮助员工发现自我，挖掘员工的最大价值，而不是凭一面之词就毁了一手培养的记者。 </font><wbr /><br /><font style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em" size="2">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 做人与做事，做企业是一样的，用心做才能有诚意。如果这个人有能力，就放手让他做。听领导话的未必是有能力的员工。听领导话的只是一些没有创新思维，拍领导马屁之辈。 </font><wbr /><br /><font style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em" size="2">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 如果企业要用人时，请不要说：“你不听领导话，所以我们不用你之类的话。”这种管理人的方式是愚蠢而可笑的。因为你找的是为你赚钱的人才而不是一个菲佣。 </font><wbr /><br /><font style="LINE-HEIGHT: 1.3em" size="2">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 企业的生命在于员工，所谓“员工和企业就像是家人和家庭的关系。家和万事业，人和业兴旺。”&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </font><wbr />]]> 
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<entry> 
<title><![CDATA[困惑]]></title> 
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<issued>2007-02-28T17:38:13Z</issued> 
<created>2007-02-28T17:38:13Z</created> 
<modified>2007-02-28T17:38:13Z</modified>
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<name>ancaly</name> 
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<email>danjiaping@hotmail.com</email> 
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<dc:subject>生活</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font size="3">困惑</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">坐在电脑前发呆，从昨天到现在，从年前到年后，这一段时间好像我学会了发呆，是不是人未老，心已经老了。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">有些人，有些事，总会让自己受伤。本一个单纯思想的人不懂得人际交往的权角之道，即使我懂，我也不会去运作。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">一次新疆之行，本来愉快的心情在回到单位后又被跌到谷底。世间为什么总有一种人叫小人。这种人总在你的生活里出现，在时不时的你没有防备的时候给你摆上一道，让你去适应他的哲学，让你去化解危机。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">小人得志，不长矣。但是往往得志最久的还是小人。心胸要开阔，做人要厚道，但是自己做到了，别人有没有做到呢？</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">所有的过去不公平犹如放电影一样的让自己暗然伤神。曾经想过要隐忍，但过多的隐忍只能说明自己的懦弱。人们常常在生气的时候，自诩“老虎不发威，以为是病猫”。有时自己真的想一股脑向这个小人骂去。可是，十几年的读书生涯告诉我做事要冷静。以前，我经常给别人当心理咨询者，而自己遇上不公平的待遇后，自己反倒成为了一个哑巴吃黄莲，有口说不出。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">变脸是川剧里的保留剧种，而在现实生活中有些人真的会变脸。他不用衣袖遮脸，更不用事先做好的脸谱进行复杂的扯脸、抹脸；而是很有技巧的变皮肉脸。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">变脸也好，变色也罢，人家就是能自唱自说。个中的深谙只有神鬼知道。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">我是一个凡人，我不会那么复杂的处世，我不是神仙我没有仙术道技。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">智者说：“小人是你的老师，逆境是你成长的阶梯。”</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">哲学者说：“心态决定一切。”</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">大自然说：“黑暗终将过去，因为黎明就会来的。”</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font size="3">中国话，拨得云开见月明。是不是在久经沙场后，自己是不是还能有这种心境呢？</font></span></p><p />]]> 
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<entry> 
<title><![CDATA[爱的时候，你去了天堂]]></title> 
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<issued>2006-07-10T15:17:30Z</issued> 
<created>2006-07-10T15:17:30Z</created> 
<modified>2006-07-10T15:17:30Z</modified>
<id>tag:ancaly.blogchina.com,2006://5367025</id>
<author> 
<name>ancaly</name> 
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<dc:subject>生活</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"><font color="#0000ff" size="1">爱的时候，你去了天堂</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&amp;nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“</span><font face="Times New Roman"> </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">在爱你的时候我在路上，</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">在路上的时候我在爱你。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">遇到真爱犹如进了天堂，</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">进了天堂却失去了真爱。”</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="EN-US"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"><font face="Times New Roman">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </font></span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">—</span><font face="Times New Roman"> </font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">—晨曦</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&amp;nbsp;</span></font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">那是一个静静的下午，天灰灰的、暗暗的犹如小静的心情。在前一刻小静刚和她相爱三年的男友在电话里分了手。她坐在窗台上，看着外面翻滚的云层，思绪回到她和男友相遇的情景。而就在此时一个与她心情不协调的手机铃声响起。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">小静烦燥的接起了电话。“喂，找谁？”</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“你好，请问你是小静吗？”电话那头浑厚的嗓音穿刺着她的耳膜。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“小静？请问你找哪个小静？”我不耐烦的问着。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“我是千叶文化公司的行政总监，我叫</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">。我在网上看了你的博客，我觉得你是一个……”小静打断了他的话。因为小静知道他下面会说她很有才华之类的客气话。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“对不起先生，你好像是在一个不对的时间打错了不对的电话。”说完，小静就把电话挂了。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">在接到陌生电话后两个月的一天，小静打开已经五年久未打开的邮箱时，看到了一个再也熟悉不过的电邮地址。而那邮件的时间却是上个月的。一行行跳动的字，一句句深情的告白，往昔犹如在眼前，仿佛发信的人正站在小静的身边。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&amp;nbsp;</span></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312">“小静：<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff">在无数个夜晚我都在念着你的名字。也许你已经忘记了我。但是随着时间的推移，你在我的心里的份量是越来越重。<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff">我是<span lang="EN-US">Tim</span>，那个当初离开你的<span lang="EN-US">Tim</span>。当年我因为父亲的公司经营不良需要和另外一家公司进行生意上的联姻。我是被逼无奈的。这么多年了，五年间你有没有什么变化？<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff">你知道吗？在网站上看到你写的博客后，我的心脏在那一刻差点不能呼吸。我是高兴，你明白吗？<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff">再见你，我不知道我该用什么样的一种方式。所以，那天冒昧地装着很生疏的给你电话。<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff">小静，还能再给我一次爱你的机会吗？我和<span lang="EN-US">Jonce</span>已经办理了离婚。小静，我知道当年我离开小城对你真的造成了伤害。可是我真的是迫于无奈。<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff">小静，我回来了。请给我一次机会！给我们的爱一条活路。<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 楷体_GB2312"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff">爱你的<span lang="EN-US">Tim</span>”<span lang="EN-US"><p /></span></font></font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">看完电邮，小静的眼湿湿的。仿佛时间在那一刻停住了一样。是他吗？那个在五年前离开她的</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">小静立马打了一个早已记忆在心中千百遍的号码。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">嘟嘟声不知是她的心跳还是电话的电流声。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“小静吗？是你吗？”电话里那人好像已经期待很久一样。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“是我，是我…</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">，你在哪里？告诉我？真的是你吗？我要现在去看你……”小静哭泣着。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“乖，我还是在以前我在的地方。……”</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">本还有话要说的，可是小静已经挂掉了电话。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">下了公寓，小静打了一辆的士一路狂奔。她的思绪在飞翔。她叫司机开快一点，……</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><chmetcnv w:st="on" unitname="km" sourcevalue="120" hasspace="False" negative="False" numbertype="1" tcsc="0"><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">120KM</font></span></chmetcnv><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">的马力在黑夜中犹如旋风，车窗外传来呼啸的风。小静在欢呼着，因为马上可以看到</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">了。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">来到</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">以前居住的地方，房子静静的，只有楼下门卫室的灯光还在暗夜里闪烁着。小静走上前去，“大伯，请问</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">是不是回来了。”</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">门卫大伯做出惊讶的表情，“你是说</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">？”他的表情之怪异，眼睛的瞳孔在放大。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“大伯，怎么了？刚才</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">还打电话给我，说他回来了的。”小静急急的叫着。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“小姐，你…你不知道…”门卫大伯结巴的说着。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“不知道什么？可不可以说清楚一点。”小静再也不忍受这个老伯的说话方式。小静拼命的摇着门卫大伯的胳膊。“告诉我，告诉我…”</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“小姐，</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">上个月在新加坡去机场的路上出了车祸，人已经死了。你说他怎么可能会打电话给你…”门卫大伯叹着气。“听公司的人讲。好像他是打算回小城，好像是看一个叫什么小静的女孩。…”门卫大伯抹着泪，“</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">人很好的，对我们下人从来不亏待。怎么好人就不么长命。”</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“大伯，我就是小静。都怪我，都怪我…如果他不回来，也许他就不会出车祸，那他就不会死…”小静一下子瘫倒在了地上。任凭门卫大伯的喊声，任凭门卫大伯的五指在眼前晃荡。小静只管自己自言自语。“为什么我不早点打开邮箱？为什么…</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">，为什么我们相爱不能在一起。”</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">刺耳的电话铃声响起了。小静慌乱的抓起电话，“</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">，是你吗？回来，不要离开我。为什么在可以爱的时候，上帝要把你带离我的视线？”</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">对方只有一片电流声，除了静寂还是静寂。终于，在一声叹息后，听到了声音。“小静，对不起！让你伤心了！不要为我难过，不要哭，不要…我到了天堂，我因放不下你，放不下我们的爱，所以我向上帝许了一个愿，只给我一个月的时间呆在人间等到你出现后我就离开。…”</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“告诉我，你在哪里？请出来！”小静双眼迷漫着泪水。而在一旁的门卫大伯却是双腿在打着颤。就在这时，门卫大伯的呼息再次快要停住，因为此时一个模糊的身影已经出现在了小静的后面。</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">是</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">。他向门卫大伯微微的一笑。然后又飘到了小静的正面。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman""><font color="#0000ff" size="1">“傻丫头，为我哭什么啊，不值得！”</font></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">看到日思夜想的人出现在面前，</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">却没有能力再把小静拥入怀中。他的表情悲恸着。“小静，对不起，又让你难过。”</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">，…说对不起的人是我。如果我早一天打开邮箱，也许现在不是这样的…”小静上前想抚摸</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">的手，可是抓到的是空空的，想触摸他的肩，也是空空。泪又一次迷漫着小静的双眼。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“小静，我今天就要离开这个世界了，我也回不了天堂了。因为我错过了去天堂的日子。我明天开始只会变为一阵风。当你的脸有风吹过的时候，那是我在亲吻你，我在想你。”</span><font face="Times New Roman"> <span lang="EN-US">Tim</span></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">伸出手抚摸着小静的头发，眼里满含着深情。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">随着一阵公鸡的啼鸣，</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">的脸色变得亦加的难看。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">你怎么了？大伯，帮帮</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">。”小静回头看向门卫大伯的时候，门卫大伯早就晕过去了。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“保护好自己，不要为我难过。来世我们再在一起。小静，对不起…”</span><font face="Times New Roman"> <span lang="EN-US">Tim</span></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">身影不停的往后退。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">小静哭着，她想抓住</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">的手，可是…</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">的身影在变着影，身体越来越透明，…随着一阵风，</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">的身影被吹散了。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“带我一起走好吗？”小静追着</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">Tim</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">散去的方向。</span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21.75pt"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">“不要，你要好好的为我活着。”</span><font face="Times New Roman"> <span lang="EN-US">Tim</span></font><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">的声音不知是穿透着云尘，还是穿透着地底，洪亮的响在小静的四周。（晨曦）</span></font></font></p>]]> 
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<entry> 
<title><![CDATA[忙后的六小时]]></title> 
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<issued>2006-06-24T22:14:05Z</issued> 
<created>2006-06-24T22:14:05Z</created> 
<modified>2006-06-24T22:14:05Z</modified>
<id>tag:ancaly.blogchina.com,2006://5290023</id>
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<name>ancaly</name> 
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<dc:subject>生活</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<p align="center">忙后的六小时</p><p align="left">　　自打报纸正常出版以来，我的时间像用挤的一样，每天神经都处在紧张状态。总想着什么样的话题是家长愿意看的，学生想看的。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 《今日晚报》教育周刊运行一个多月来，从刚开始别人的不认同。到最近，几所学校校长对我们的好评。我们做的是兢兢业业。因为我是初入新闻行业，有许多的规则我需要摸索。在许多的前辈面前，我是一个新人。我只有努力、勤奋一点，我才能获得更大的进步。于是我每天都要忙到很晚。晚上十二点后才是我的梦乡时间。而我的睡眠时间只有短短的六小时。而这六小时并不是仅仅睡觉。因为我发现我在梦里也在思考着自己要采访什么，要写什么样的稿子更有人看。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 六不时，自由的六小时对于我来说是比较奢侈的。在这些日子，我没有时间在博客上写东西。慷每天忙碌着，成效却甚微。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 今天抽空上来写了两句费话，鼓励自己继续踏实的努力工作，心胸大一些，小女孩大气度。同时也感谢常常关注我博客的朋友们！谢谢你们！</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 我在新闻事业里努力耕耘！我会用我的正义为民诉情，做一个正直而优秀的新闻工作者！</p><p align="center" />]]> 
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<entry> 
<title><![CDATA[蒙牛被告副总裁孙先红详述牛根生告状内幕]]></title> 
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<issued>2006-04-14T17:47:52Z</issued> 
<created>2006-04-14T17:47:52Z</created> 
<modified>2006-04-14T17:47:52Z</modified>
<id>tag:ancaly.blogchina.com,2006://4879933</id>
<author> 
<name>ancaly</name> 
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<email>danjiaping@hotmail.com</email> 
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<dc:subject>名企导读</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<table cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="98%" align="center" border="0"><tbody><tr valign="top" align="center"><td colspan="2" height="40"><span class="style17"><strong><font color="#b71600">蒙牛被告副总裁孙先红详述牛根生告状内幕</font></strong></span></td></tr><tr valign="middle" align="center"><td class="main_ArticleSubheading" colspan="2" height="20"><strong><font color="#b71600" size="5"></font></strong></td></tr><tr align="center" bgcolor="#f4f4f4"><td colspan="2"><a href="http://manage.org.cn/"><strong><font color="#000000" size="1">中国管理传播网</font></strong></a><font size="1">（域名：</font><a href="http://manage.org.cn/"><strong><font color="#000000" size="1">http://manage.org.cn</font></strong></a><font size="1">）</font></td></tr><tr class="left_tdbgall" align="center"><td colspan="2"><font size="1">作者：姚江波　来源：网易商业报道　时间：2006-4-14</font></td></tr><tr><td id="fontzoom" style="FONT-SIZE: 14px; LINE-HEIGHT: 180%" valign="top" colspan="2" height="150"><br />　　昨天有媒体披露，《蒙牛内幕》一书的作者蒙牛集团副总裁孙先红和蒙牛总裁新闻助理张治国被蒙牛集团董事长牛根生告上了法庭。消息莆一传出，人们对这一自家人告自家人、极富戏剧性的事件感到困惑：一向做事稳健的老牛（牛根生）这是要干啥？对此，网易商业报道在第一时间连线了被告蒙牛集团副总裁孙先红。 <p>　　“牛总起诉是真事，但这已经不是新闻了。”孙先红告诉网易商业报道说，“这件事发生在去年。昨天在《蒙牛内幕》的影视版权出售发布会上，导演王新民说到了这个事儿，结果就被媒体记者给抓住写出来了。” </p><p>　　孙先红介绍说，虽然他和张治国是蒙牛集团的工作人员，写的也是蒙牛，但撰写《蒙牛内幕》是个人行为，与蒙牛集团没有关系。所以从撰写过程到第一次出版时牛根生对该书都没有过问。去年7月份《蒙牛内幕》第一次出版后，有人将书拿给牛根生看。当时正值召开蒙牛营销议期间，牛根生看了后认为中间存在一些问题，并提出几点意见：蒙牛的营销手段、蒙牛战略措施写的太多太细，会给竞争对手掌握，一些营销机密对手能马上使用，作者张治国江当记者期间的作品“秘书当官”也加到了这本书里不妥。 </p><p>　　“牛总当时和我进行了沟通，要求对其中一些不妥之处进行修改。”孙先红说，“那个时候大家都很忙，大概一个月后我在外地出差，张志国给我打电话说牛总将我们俩告了，法院送来了传票。当时我们商量该怎么办，理不理这个传票。最后觉得既然出书是个人行为，就应该去正确对待这件事，这是对牛总和蒙牛公司的尊重。牛总选择到法院起诉也是考虑到了企业的利益。” </p><p>　　这起诉讼在对薄公堂前就以法院调解成功而告终。“我们做了保证，按照牛总的意见在本书再版时作了修正，将一些不妥的内容去除了。”孙先红说，“这件事并不牵涉个人之间的矛盾，也不影响我们和牛总的同事关系。” </p></td></tr></tbody></table>]]> 
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<entry> 
<title><![CDATA[情绪的低落潮]]></title> 
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<issued>2006-04-14T17:25:52Z</issued> 
<created>2006-04-14T17:25:52Z</created> 
<modified>2006-04-14T17:25:52Z</modified>
<id>tag:ancaly.blogchina.com,2006://4879784</id>
<author> 
<name>ancaly</name> 
<url>http://ancaly.blogchina.com/index.html</url> 
<email>danjiaping@hotmail.com</email> 
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<dc:subject>生活</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<p align="center">情绪的低落潮</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 到报社已经有十一天了，时间不是很长，但好像呆了很长一样。从没有觉得时间可以在这么短的时间会有很长的感觉。这好像不是十一天，而是更长……</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &amp;nbsp;真正意义上进入实质性的工作还没有开始，而我却有了一些疲惫。并不是退却，而是真的发现身体机能出变化了。心情开始烦躁，脾气开始动不动就爆发，更是动不动就会脆弱的流眼泪。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 报纸这个媒介是全世界竞争最残酷的一个竞技场。这里是铁打的银盘，流动的沙。上一分钟也许你还有能力。但是走到后面不一定你还会被看重。报纸行业人员流动是频繁的。同时让我感到可怕。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 我并不是怕自己丢掉饭碗，而是怕我承受不起挫折，自己把自己炒了。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 下午回家睡了一觉，做了一场梦。梦境很真实，从心理学的角度，我做那个梦，说明我承受着压力，担负着恐惧。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;我梦见我的一个老师告诉我：“你不要忘记了自己的长处，人不可能什么都做，你能做的只有一个，会做的太多不能做好一个，相当于你什么都不会做。量力而行，做有把握的事，不做无底的事。”醒来，他的话还清晰地在我耳边。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 是啊？醒来后，我发现我茫然了。我会做什么，我能什么，我做的好什么？在发生挫折时，不是找客观的原因，而是要在自己身上找主观的原因。别人能做成的事，为什么我不能？擅于分析失败，总结经验的人，才会取得下一次成功。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 我既然选择了做报纸媒体这一行，我就应该心无杂念地做下去。不要被眼前的困惑而打倒。自己梦想明明已经做到，现在是自己珍惜的时候。在工作中展露头角，但不是骄，不是跋，……</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 做一个随和的人，真诚热心的和身边的同事共事；做一个谦虚的人，认真，诚恳地赂身边的人虚心学习&amp;nbsp;。&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 只有发现困难解决困难才能真正的走出困境。像我今天下午的逃兵状，连连我自己都看不起自己。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;加油，加油！！！！！</p>]]> 
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<entry> 
<title><![CDATA[百年名校  华章出彩]]></title> 
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<issued>2006-04-12T22:46:27Z</issued> 
<created>2006-04-12T22:46:27Z</created> 
<modified>2006-04-12T22:46:27Z</modified>
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<name>ancaly</name> 
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<email>danjiaping@hotmail.com</email> 
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<dc:subject>自贡人说自贡事</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<p><font size="1"></font></p><div class="Section1" style="LAYOUT-GRID:  15.6pt none"><h2 style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><font size="1"><font face="courier new,courier,monospace"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">百年名校</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 华文新魏"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&amp;nbsp; </span></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">华章出彩</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 华文新魏"><p /></span></font></font></h2><h2 style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; LINE-HEIGHT: normal; TEXT-ALIGN: center" align="center"><font size="1"><font face="courier new,courier,monospace"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">鲲鹏展翅高飞</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 华文新魏">, </span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 华文新魏; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">荣中助你成才</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 22pt; COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: "Times New Roman"; mso-bidi-font-size: 16.0pt; mso-fareast-font-family: 华文新魏"><p /></span></font></font></h2><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="courier new,courier,monospace" size="1">&amp;nbsp;</font></p></span><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="1">&amp;nbsp;</font></p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span lang="EN-US"><p><font face="Times New Roman" size="1">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </font></p></span><shape id="_x0000_s1028" style="MARGIN-TOP: 475.8pt; Z-INDEX: -1; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: -9pt; WIDTH: 112.3pt; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 75.45pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left" type="#_x0000_t75" wrapcoords="-144 0 -144 21386 21600 21386 21600 0 -144 0"><font face="Times New Roman"><font size="1"><imagedata o:title="02" src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\但佳萍\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtml1\01\clip_image001.jpg" /><wrap type="tight" /></font></font></shape><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">四川省荣县中学校创办于</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1913</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">年，迄今已走过了九十年的风雨历程，是川南地区</span></font></font><shape id="_x0000_s1026" style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; Z-INDEX: -3; LEFT: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 343.75pt; WIDTH: 135pt; POSITION: absolute; HEIGHT: 145.95pt; TEXT-ALIGN: left; mso-position-horizontal: right; mso-position-horizontal-relative: text; mso-position-vertical: top; mso-position-vertical-relative: line" type="#_x0000_t75" wrapcoords="-90 0 -90 21516 21600 21516 21600 0 -90 0" o:allowoverlap="f"><font face="Times New Roman"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"> <imagedata o:title="四川省荣县中学校" src="file:///C:\DOCUME~1\但佳萍\LOCALS~1\Temp\msohtml1\01\clip_image002.jpg" /><wrap type="square" /></font></font></font></shape><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">一所办学历史悠久、办学效益优良的学校。早在二十世纪三十年代，学校就享有“川南文化之冠”的美誉。多次受到我国无产阶级革命家、教育家、历史学家、语言文字学家吴玉章同志的关怀和鼓励。</span></font></font><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">荣中建校</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">93</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">年来先后为高一级学校和<img style="WIDTH: 202px; HEIGHT: 139px" height="139" alt=" " src="http://ancaly.bokee.com/inc/%CB%C4%B4%A8%CA%A1%C8%D9%CF%D8%D6%D0%D1%A7%D0%A3.jpg" width="202" onload="function anonymous()
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}" align="left" />地方经济建设培养了各类人才</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">万多名。其间不乏大批的优秀人才，著名书法家、诗人柳倩，蜚声海内外的“蝶痴”画家万钟，我国发射第一颗通讯卫星的有功之臣邹金德，博士导师、西南交大校长周本宽等一大批著名人士就是其中的佼佼者。自党的十一届三中全会以来，学校屡获殊荣，先后被命名为：“四川省首批重点高中”、“四川省体育传统项目学校”、“四川省首批校风示范学校”、“四川省德育工作先进单位”、“全国体育卫生先进单位”、“四川百所艺术教育特色学校”、“四川艺术特色教育先进单位”、“四川省绿色学校”、“四川省绿经示范学校”、“四川省青少年科技教育示范学校”、“全国绿化四百佳单位”、“全国绿化工作先进单位”、“四川省心理健康教育实验学校”、“四川大学排球后备人才培训基地”。</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">2002</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">年</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">8</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">月，被四川省教育厅确认为“四川省示范性普通高中”。“四川省国家级示范高中”。</span></font></font></p></div><p class="MsoBodyTextIndent" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><shape id="_x0000_s1027" style="MARGIN-TOP: -483.6pt; 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mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"><font face="Times New Roman">85%</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">的教师获得高、中级专业技术职称。先后有多人获得全国优秀教师、特级教师、省劳模、市、县名师、名校长及先进工作者称号。学校现有教学班</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"><font face="Times New Roman">83</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">个，学生</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"><font face="Times New Roman">5400</font></span><span style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">人。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10.5pt"><p /></span></font></font></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; mso-char-indent-count: 2.0"><font size="1"><font color="#0000ff"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">荣县中学坚持以人为本，促进学生全面发展，坚持以教学为中心，以科技创新教育和艺术体育教育为特色，推动学生综合素质培养。学生参加数理化生等竞赛，获奖人数多，层次高，先后有</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">30</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">多名同学获得大学保送生资格。科技创新教育硕果累累。在青少年科技创新大<img alt=" " src="http://ancaly.bokee.com/inc/%CE%DE%B1%EA%CC%E2.JPG" onload="javascript: img_auto_size(this,450,true);" align="right" />赛中，共获得国家级二等奖</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">1</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">个、省级一等奖</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">5</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: "Times New Roman"; mso-hansi-font-family: "Times New Roman"">个、二等奖</span><span lang="EN-US"><font face="Times New Roman">17</font></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; 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<title><![CDATA[偶遇初恋]]></title> 
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<issued>2006-04-07T20:22:22Z</issued> 
<created>2006-04-07T20:22:22Z</created> 
<modified>2006-04-07T20:22:22Z</modified>
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<name>ancaly</name> 
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<email>danjiaping@hotmail.com</email> 
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<dc:subject>生活</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<p align="left">　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　　偶遇初恋</p><p align="left">　　曾经我很认真的想过，如果有一天我遇到了王科会是一种怎样的情景。但是，任何场景都没有今天来的突然。让我没有一丝的防备。我有的是惊讶，有的是失落，有的是往事不断的回忆……</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 我上班的地方是九鼎12F，我坐电梯来到了楼下。我为了省路，并从百货区穿过。然而，当我走到天王珠宝柜前。那个高高的背影，……我的心提到了嗓子眼。我不敢大声的呼吸。我想确定是不是那个让我第一个爱上的男孩。我没有走，我只是在那里站着。而在此时，他也侧过了身。我的视线刚好和他的相交。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 我们没有打招呼，我向他微笑。我知道那时的我笑的有多假，但是我只能那样。而他的眼睛好像在说什么，就在我想理会他的眼神时。他身边的女孩问他，“好不不好看。”那是一颗钻戒。一切我都明白了。相见不如怀念的感觉汕然而生。我手里的文件夹掉在了地上。我不知道我为什么会有那样的反应。我已经有男朋友了，不是吧？为什么看到他还是会那样的悸动。我心虚的捡起掉在地上的文件夹，远远的，快快的逃离他们。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 走出商场，我的脑海里浮现的是过往的我们。那个天真的女孩暗恋着一个男生。直到毕业，到了南方的一个城市。她才在万里之外的南方一那个男孩写来了一封迟来的告白。而阴差阳错间，他们的信都没有传到对方的手里。有的是错过的缘份……</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 坐在绿化带，我在心里笑着自己。过去的，得不到的，已失去的，那都已经成了回忆。而现在才是最重要的。遇到初恋又怎么了？每个人的一生不可能只谈一次恋爱。但是，每个人的一生只和一个最爱的人结婚。</p><p align="left">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 真心的祝福王科和他的女孩快乐！当爱已成往事，随记忆藏于风中……</p><p align="left" />]]> 
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<title><![CDATA[八段省思, 分享与您]]></title> 
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<issued>2006-04-05T22:08:41Z</issued> 
<created>2006-04-05T22:08:41Z</created> 
<modified>2006-04-05T22:08:41Z</modified>
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<name>ancaly</name> 
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<email>danjiaping@hotmail.com</email> 
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<dc:subject>生活</dc:subject> 
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mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: navy; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><p><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">&amp;nbsp;</font></p></span></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">问题一</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">如果你家附近有一家餐厅，东西又贵又难吃，桌上还爬着蟑螂，你会因为它很近</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　很方便，就一而再、再而三地光临吗？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　回答：你一定会说，这是什么烂问题，谁那么笨，花钱买罪受？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　可同样的情况换个场合，自己或许就做类似的蠢事。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　不少男女都曾经抱怨过他们的情人或配偶品性不端，三心二意，不负责任。明知在一起没</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　什么好的结果，怨恨已经比爱还多，但却「不知道为什么」还是要和他搅和下去，分不了</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　手。说穿了，只是为了不甘，为了习惯，这不也和光临餐厅一样？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　<span style="COLOR: red">做人，为什么要过于执着？！</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"> <p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&amp;nbsp;</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">问题二</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　如果你不小心丢掉</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">100</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">块钱，只知道它好像丢在某个你走过的地方，你会花</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">200</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">块钱的车费去把那</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">100</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">块找回来吗？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　回答：一个超级愚蠢的问题。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　可是，相似的事情却在人生中不断发生。做错了一件事，明知自己有问题，却</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">*</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">也不肯认错，反而花加倍的时间来找借口，让别人对自己的印象大打折扣。被人骂了一句话，却花了无数时间难过，道理相同。为一件事情发火，不惜损人不利已，不惜血本，不惜时间，只为报复，不也一样无聊？失去一个人的感情，明知一切已无法挽回，却还是那么伤心，而且一伤心就是好几年，还要借酒浇愁，形销骨立。其实这样一点用也没有，只是损失更多。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　<span style="COLOR: red">做人，干吗为难自己？！</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"> <p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">问题三</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　你会因为打开报纸发现每天都有车祸，就不敢出门吗？</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"> <p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　回答：这是个什么烂问题？当然不会，那叫因噎废食。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　然而，有不少人却曾说：现在的离婚率那么高，让我都不敢谈恋爱了。说得还挺理所当然。也有不少女人看到有关的诸多报道，就对自己的另一半忧心忡忡，这不也是类似的反应？所谓乐观，就是得相信：虽然道路多艰险，我还是那个会平安过马路的人，只要我小心一点，不必害怕过马路。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　<span style="COLOR: red">做人，先要相信自己。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"> <p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">问题四</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　你相信每个人随便都可以成功立业吗？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　回答：当然不会相信。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　但据观察，有人总是在听完成功人士绞尽脑汁的建议，比如说，多读书，多练习之后，问了另一个问题？那不是很难？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">我们都想在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">分钟内学好英文，在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">分钟内解决所有难题，难道成功是那么容易的吗？改变当然是难的。成功只因不怕困难，所以才能出类拔萃。有一次坐在出租车上，听见司机看到</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">自己前后都是高档车，兀自感叹：「唉，为什么别人那么有钱，我的钱这么难？」</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">我心血来潮，问他：「你认为世上有什么钱是好赚的？」他答不出来，过了半晌才说：「好像都是别人的钱比较好赚。」</span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">其实任何一个成功者都是艰辛取得。我们实在不该抱怨命运。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　<span style="COLOR: red">做人，依靠自己！</span></span><span style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">问题五</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　你认为完全没有打过篮球的人，可以当很好的篮球教练吗？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　回答：当然不可能，外行不可能领导内行。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　可是，有许多人，对某个行业完全不了解，只听到那个行业好</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">**</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，就马上开起业来了。我看过对穿着没有任何口味、或根本不在乎穿着的人，梦想却是开间服装店；不知道计算机怎么开机的人，却想在网上</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">**</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，结果道听途说，却不反省自己是否专业能力不足，只抱怨时不我与。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　<span style="COLOR: red">做人，量力而行。</span></span><span style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"> </span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">问题六</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　相似但不相同的问题：你是否认为，篮球教练不上篮球场，闭着眼睛也可以主导一场完美的胜利？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　回答：有病啊，当然是不可能的。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　可是却有不少朋友，自己没有时间打理，却拚命投资去开咖啡馆，开餐厅，开自己根本不懂的公司，火烧屁股一样急着把辛苦积攒的积蓄花掉，去当一个稀里胡涂的投资人。亏的总是比赚的多，却觉得自己是因为运气不好，而不是想法出了问题。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　<span style="COLOR: red">做人，记得反省自己。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"> <p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">问题七</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，</span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　你宁可永远后悔，也不愿意试一试自己能否转败为胜？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　解答：恐怕没有人会说：「对，我就是这样的孬种」吧。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　然而，我们却常常在不该打退堂鼓时拚命打退堂鼓，为了恐惧失败而不敢尝试成功。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">以关颖珊赢得</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">2000</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">年世界花样滑冰冠军时的精彩表现为例：她一心想赢得第一名，然而在最后一场比赛前，她的总积分只排名第三位，在最后的自选曲项目上，她选择了突破，而不是少出错。在</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">分钟的长曲中，结合了最高难度的三周跳，并且还大胆地连跳了两次。她也可能会败得很难看，但是她毕竟成功了。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">她说：「因为我不想等到失败，才后悔自己还有潜力没发挥。」一个中国伟人曾说；胜利的希望和有利情况的恢复，往往产生于再坚持一下的努力之中。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　<span style="COLOR: red">做人，何妨放手一搏。</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><p /></span></font></font></div><div class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt; mso-pagination: widow-orphan"><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="COLOR: blue; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">问题八</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">，</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　你的时间无限，长生不老，所以最想做的事，应该无限延期？</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　回答：不，傻瓜才会这样认为。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　<span style="COLOR: red">然而我们却常说，等我老了，要去环游世界；等我退休，就要去做想做的事情；等孩子长大了，我就可以</span></span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体">... </span><span style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">我们都以为自己有无限的时间与精力。其实我们可以一步一步实现理想，不必在等待中徒耗生命。如果现在就能一步一步努力接近，我们就不会活了半生，却出现自己最不想看到的结局。</span><span style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体"> </span></font></font><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><span style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif" size="1">　　</font></span><span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><br /></span><font size="1"><font face="verdana,arial,helvetica,sans-serif"><span style="COLOR: red; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-hansi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN">　　做人，要活在当下。</span><span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: PMingLiU; mso-bidi-font-family: PMingLiU; mso-font-kerning: 0pt"><p /></span></font></font></div>]]> 
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<title><![CDATA[相信自己亲眼所见]]></title> 
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<issued>2006-04-05T21:52:15Z</issued> 
<created>2006-04-05T21:52:15Z</created> 
<modified>2006-04-05T21:52:15Z</modified>
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<name>ancaly</name> 
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<email>danjiaping@hotmail.com</email> 
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<dc:subject>生活</dc:subject> 
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<![CDATA[<p /><p><font color="#0000cc">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 生活中，我们难免对某些事物会产生怀疑，有时本没有什么。有的只是自己想的太多而造成的心理阴影。因为先入为主的理所以为，并笃定的认定了某些脱离事实的东西。有时是很可笑的。</font></p><p><font color="#0000cc">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 就像古时候有个故事这样讲述的一样。有一个人一天到晚的担心天会不会塌，地会不会裂，水会不会淹了良田房舍。成天他都生活在自己假设的场景中，于是他一天天的消沉，一天天的以为自己要怎样了。最后，他自己就真的病了。</font></p><p><font color="#0000cc">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 怀疑的心态是对的，但是不能没有证据没有理由，并随着片面只字而否定某一方面的事和物。适当的怀疑就对了，但是如果过多的自虑，纯粹是往自己身上扣屎盆子。那样也会搞得很累。</font></p><p><font color="#0000cc">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 生活中有些快乐与不快乐，眨眼也是一瞬间。为了半会的不快乐让自己心里堵着慌，还不如保证良好的心态。快乐的种子在心里，怀疑的种子也在心里。是好是坏，全是由心在感受。</font></p><p><font color="#0000cc">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 今天我还是想说，任何时候不要盲目的过份地去怀疑，乐观一点，随意一点。说不定，自己还要精神一点。永远都要相信自己亲眼所见。不学道听途说。</font></p><p><font color="#0000cc">&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 待人真诚，和谐为道！</font></p>]]> 
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